Friday, October 31, 2025
Friday, October 31, 2025
Home Blog Page 2

Walking Out the Map of the Word (Part 15): The Continued Crescendo of the End

      We’ve walked the map Jesus drew on the Mount of Olives. We’ve watched the regional war rise — the armies closing around Jerusalem, the collapse spilling outward through violence, deception and famine. We’ve seen the heavens darken, the sun fail and the true King appear in the clouds. Every word has moved toward this.

      Then Matthew tells what comes next: “He will send out His angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather His elect from the four winds, from one end of the heaven to the other” (Matt. 24:31 ESV). It’s the shift from appearing to assembling. The clouds that carried His glory now become the meeting ground between Heaven and Earth.

      Jesus wasn’t speaking into a void. Every phrase He used echoed promises His people already knew. Moses foresaw it: “The Lord your God… will gather you again from all the peoples where the Lord your God has scattered you” (Deut. 30:3). Isaiah heard it too: A great trumpet will sound and those lost in Assyria and Egypt will come and worship the Lord in Jerusalem (Isa. 27:13). This has been done to a degree with Israel being brought to a land, but in terms of the fullness it’s at this time.

      What began as a promise to the covenant people now expands through the Messiah to every person who belongs to Him — Jew and Gentile together, one redeemed through their commitment in Christ — one family gathered by one King.

      When that trumpet sounds, it gathers every faithful heart — those who endured the tribulation, those who fell asleep in Christ, those martyred for their witness. The “four winds” mean every direction of creation. No border, no grave, no distance is beyond His reach.

      Paul describes the same instant from another vantage point: “The Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air…” (I Thess. 4:16, 17 NKJV).

      Matthew gives the geography; Paul gives the sequence. Together they reveal a single event — the resurrection and gathering of all God’s people as the King returns.

Paul adds one more detail: “The trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed” (I Cor. 15:52 NIV). It’s not a quiet exit but a public unveiling. The same world that saw the sky split will see the dead rise and the living transformed.

      John sees it from heaven’s side: “Then I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse! The One sitting on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and makes war” (Rev. 19:11 ESV).

      Behind Him ride “the armies of Heaven, clothed in fine linen, white and pure” (Rev. 19:14 TLV). These are the gathered saints — the same elect Matthew speaks of. The trumpet that called them upward now sounds the charge. The King who appeared in the clouds now rides from them.

      Daniel had already seen it: “One like a Son of Man, coming with the clouds of heaven… and to Him was given dominion and glory and a kingdom… that shall not pass away” (Dan. 7:13-14 NKJV). Jesus quotes Daniel on the Mount of Olives. Paul shows how the resurrection unfolds within that return. John sees it from the heavens — the Rider descending in power. Different witnesses, one event — the visible return of the Son of Man.

      The distress of those days ends with His appearing. The appearing leads to the assembling of His people. The assembling flows straight into His reign. It’s not a chain of separate stories but a single sweep of victory.

      For Israel, this means deliverance and recognition of the Messiah they once pierced (Zech. 12:10). For the nations, it means redemption for those who refused the beast and clung to the Lamb. Together they form one covenant community — not replacement but restoration under one Shepherd. The promises made to Abraham and the hope offered through Christ finally converge in one kingdom.

      Notice the precision of the timeline. Jesus places it “immediately after the distress of those days” (Matt. 24:29 NIV). Paul calls it the “last trumpet” (I Cor. 15:52). John shows it after the beast’s rise and Babylon’s fall (Revelation 19). Every voice agrees — tribulation first, return second, resurrection and gathering third.

      This isn’t the idea of a secret rapture before the trouble begins. It would have been listed about 15 articles ago, before “when you see Jerusalem surrounded by armies” (Luke 21:20).

      The gathering comes after the storm, not before it. The King isn’t airlifting His people away; He’s uniting them to Himself as He descends to rule.

      Picture the moment. The air still heavy with smoke. The world trembling from the final war. Then the trumpet rolls through creation. Across continents and seas, graves break open. The dead in Christ rise. Dust becomes life again. Angels move through the skies, gathering the redeemed from every direction. Those still alive are caught up to join them. Heaven and earth collide in one vast procession.

      Moments later, John sees them again — descending with the Rider. These are the elect Matthew spoke of, now the armies of Heaven. The trumpet that gathered them upward now drives them forward. The Rider advances, the false prophet falls and the beast’s kingdom collapses under the brightness of His coming.

      This isn’t a metaphor. It’s the hinge of creation — the moment death dies and the curse cracks apart. The divided family of God stands whole. Every prophecy from Moses to John converges here. The trumpet of Isaiah is the trumpet of Paul. The clouds of Daniel are the clouds of Matthew. The white horse of Revelation carries the same Son of Man who spoke on the Mount of Olives.

      When the King rides, He rides for all who are His. From Jerusalem to the ends of the earth, from graves long forgotten to skies now aflame, every promise gathers into one sound — the trumpet of the returning Lord.

      The dead rise. The living join them. The heavens open. And the King — Faithful and True — rides to make all things new.

“We Don’t Need the Association!”

      I was just thinking about a statement made to me a few years ago when I was president of the BMA of Arkansas. I had asked a pastor why his church was no longer represented at the annual meeting. His reply took me by surprise. He replied, “Oh, we don’t need the association. We do so much on our own!” My response was, “Maybe not, but in fact the association needs your church and all the others as well.”

Facing Facts

         The BMA of Arkansas is diminishing! The number continues to decrease from a group of nearly 450 churches to just over 300. Churches once ensured their congregations were represented at every annual meeting with three messengers and sometimes more visitors.

      Yes, attendance in churches across the state has also diminished. Additionally, many churches now have bi-vocational pastors rather than full-time pastors. The bi-vocational pastor may be restricted from attending due to the responsibilities at his other work.

The Reason for the Association

         As a state entity that cooperates with our national work, the Baptist Missionary Association of America, we must remain committed to the purpose outlined in our organization in 1951. That was to unite to support our state works. The BMA of Arkansas Missions, Central Baptist College, the Baptist Trumpet and Student Ministry Matters (our State Youth Department). Each of these not only needs support from the churches that compose the association, but they also deserve it.

      Some of our larger churches may no longer need the association (some were, in fact, church plants from State Missions), but the association needs their prayers, financial support and, yes, their voices, as provided by their messengers at the annual sessions of the BMA of Arkansas.

A Personal Plea

         Last month marked my 61st year in the ministry. I have attended the BMA of Arkansas sessions each of those years, apart from my time in military service. It breaks my heart to see an association that I love so much continue to diminish.

      I understand that churches face financial strains from time to time, but I fear that more often than not, apathy is the culprit that causes the decline in churches sending messengers to the meeting each year.

      Please, on Thursday, November 6, see to it that your church is represented. The meeting is only one day this year. Not every church will have to pay for lodging and extra meals. Remember, the association is not just about business. It is also about worship and fellowship. I personally love seeing friends, brothers and sisters in Christ, fellowshipping with those whom I first met 61 years ago.

      The vast majority of the BMA of Arkansas churches cannot plant churches on their own, keep the Baptist Trumpet published, provide students with scholarships to CBC or support the conferences provided by Student Ministry Matters. But together, we can uniteand get things done for the cause of Christ.

      BMA church and pastor, the BMA of Arkansas needs you! Right now, will you begin to pray for the meeting on Nov. 6? Will you pray for State Missions Executive Director Paul White and our state missionaries — Ruben Isturiz, Bryan Clay, Jake McCandless, Johnny Shew, Robert Marcelletti and Michael Hight? Will you pray for the Baptist Trumpet and Executive Editor Jeff Herring? Will you pray for Central Baptist College, President Dr. Jeremy Langley, and the administration and faculty? Will you pray for Student Ministry Matters Director Dan Carson? These are those who serve the churches of the BMA of Arkansas.

      I look forward to seeing you on Thursday, Nov. 6, on the campus of Central Baptist College in Conway. The Association needs all of us!

Pastoral Warning Signs

      Leadership is certainly challenging, and there are many tests along the path. The obstacles are real, the hazards should not be ignored, and it is very easy to stumble along the way. There are danger signs in a leader’s life, including isolation, a lack of accountability and defensiveness. The gravity and seriousness of church leadership weigh heavily on your shoulders. You cannot ignore the seriousness of your role in God’s plan. Your testimony must be impeccable in the areas of character, integrity and being blameless according to the standard clearly given in God’s Word.

      The responsibility is real, and the size of your congregation does not determine it. The weightiness is there whether you pastor 40 or 400 because you have been called to shepherd God’s flock as an overseer. You should take your calling very seriously because Hebrews 13:17 tells us that an account will be given for how a leader leads. The stress is real as well due to a lack of growth, financial challenges, personal challenges and a multitude of other obstacles. You must continually keep an eye out for warning signs that you are personally not in a good place spiritually, physically, financially or structurally.

      One danger to be very careful of is entitlement. Mark Clifton stated, “When you begin to think that you are sort of indispensable to God’s work and you forget that you actually are not that big of a deal.” Remember, you are first and foremost a servant. Jesus came to serve and has called us to pick up the towel of servanthood and wash the feet of those around us through attending to the needs of others. A little “success” can go to your head, and you must guard against thinking too highly of yourself (See Rom. 12:3). It does not matter how big your church becomes. God resists the proud.

      Be careful not to allow celebrity culture to grow in your church. Remember, it can happen in small churches as well as large churches. It is easy to enjoy being “the guy” who calls the shots that everyone is supposed to follow. Temper that temptation by remaining humble, accountable, teachable and submissive as the shepherd under the care of the Chief Shepherd. Entitlement can impact and create so many other dangers that will raise their ugly heads if you allow them through arrogance and isolation from godly counsel. A network of fellow pastors, elders and leaders is imperative.

      When entitlement steps in and you begin to think more highly of yourself than you should, applause will corrupt you, and criticism will crush you. Who you are in Christ is far more important than what you do for Christ. It is far too easy to focus on charisma and competency and forget the most important “C” — character. What are you entitled to as a leader? Jesus says in Luke 9:23, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.” We are entitled to death as Paul reminds us in Galatians 2:20, “I am crucified with Christ…” Leaders must regularly crucify their flesh.

      It is not about you, nor is it about me. It is all about Jesus, and only He deserves the glory and praise. I know you know this, but it is good to be reminded of this truth continually. One pastor was pretty impressed by his message one Sunday. On the way home, he asked his wife, “How many great messages do you believe were preached this morning across America?” She replied, “Probably one less than you do!” Isn’t it amazing that when a preacher believes he did great, no one seems to notice or move, but when he believes he failed, God moves mightily? That should tell us something right there.

      Mark Clifton continued, “There is no room for a sense of entitlement in a pastor’s heart. ‘People should treat me better. They should respect me more. I should have a better place to preach. I should have a better situation.’ And if you have ever desired to pastor a better place, I don’t know that the Holy Spirit puts that in your mind. It’s a red flag. It’s a warning sign.” When you do begin to believe you deserve better, that is a great opportunity to seek the Lord’s face and admit your pettiness and pride. Repent quickly and humble yourself again to God’s calling on your life right where you are and right now.

      A spirit and heart of entitlement can easily lead to other issues, such as abuse of power and manipulation. Years ago, I had to confess that my focus was on using people to build the church rather than on using the church to build up people. Yes, there can be a very thin line there, but that is why you must continually allow the Lord to examine your motives. You must also allow others to speak into your life about what they see and where they believe your direction and motives may be misguided. Lord Acton wrote in 1887, “power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely.”

      Ministry was never designed to create a culture of the “professionalization of the clergy.” This is a reference to the “trend of religious leaders, such as pastors and other clergy members, being treated as professionals with specialized training, skills and knowledge, similar to other professional fields.” It involves a more formal education, certification and professional development. Many of the standards and certifications are good things, but the best thing is a godly calling and character. Matthew 23:11 states, But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.”

      The dangers are real and always present. I Peter 5:8 reminds us, “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom He may devour.” Adrian Rodgers said it well: “It is far better for a leader to be wise than to be intelligent or gifted!”

God’s Unfailing Love

      After a restless night, you may wake up feeling anxious and overwhelmed with what the day holds. It happens to all of us because this Satan-controlled world is not our friend and, in fact, delights in our suffering. However, because we are in the care and custody of God, He offers us hope and comfort when we need it.

      When morning comes and you need comfort and encouragement, claim this prayer before you are faced with any distractions: “Answer me quickly, O Lord; my spirit fails… Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift my soul” (Psalm 143:7, 8 NIV1984). Make this your daily morning prayer.

      King David wrote this psalm when he was in deep anguish from being constantly hunted by his enemies. You can sense his desperation. “O Lord, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for mercy; in your faithfulness and righteousness come to my relief” (Psalm 143:1). In verse 4, he continues, relating to how he feels. “My spirit grows faint within me; my heart within me is dismayed.” He needed a reminder of God’s “…unfailing love” (Psalm 6:4).

      God’s love is unconditional, unchanging, constant, inexhaustible and faithful. It is an act of undeserved grace to us. It is hard to imagine that type of love. We may, with God’s help, love unconditionally, meaning we accept a person the way she is, flaws and all, but “unfailing love” is not one of our natural attributes. We love — if we are loved in return. We love — if we are not betrayed. We love — if a person meets our expectations. How thankful we are that God is not like that! His love is not based on external circumstances. God is the same yesterday, today and forever.

      When we commit this verse to memory and believe it wholeheartedly, our day will start out better. Realizing the extent of God’s perfect love helps us to trust Him in all circumstances. “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness” (Lam. 3:22-23). What encouragement! Paul made this statement: “…If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Rom. 8:31).

      This early morning prayer will remind you of God’s “unfailing love,” and give you confidence that no matter what you may be going through, He is there for you. No one will ever love you like He does. When negative or fearful thoughts begin to enter your mind, as they surely will, stop and refocus. Claim God’s promises. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:6, 7). You will never be free of problems as “…your enemy the devil prowls around looking for someone to devour” (I Peter 5:8). But you can trust God. He will never fail you!

      God’s love endures forever and “neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God, that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:38-39). How encouraging!

      Read the psalmist’s words: “When I said, ‘My foot is slipping,’ your (unfailing) love, O Lord, supported me. When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul” (Psalm 94:18, 19). His promises are true!

Obituaries – October 29, 2025

0

     Margaret June Phillips, 95 of Hope passed away Oct. 24. She was a member of Unity Baptist Church of Hope.

     Barbara Knight Bowden, 80 of New Edinburg passed away Oct. 18. She was a member of Chapel Hill Baptist Church.

Welcome to Campus BMA of Arkansas!

By Duffy Guyton, Vice President for Advancement • Central Baptist College

      Central Baptist College is honored to host the 76th Annual Session of the Baptist Missionary Association of Arkansas on Thursday, Nov. 6. It is our sincere joy to welcome the pastors, messengers and guests of the BMA of Arkansas to our campus.

      We are deeply grateful for your ministry and partnership in the gospel. Our prayer is that your time at CBC is refreshing, worshipful and filled with fellowship and encouragement.

      For your convenience, an information table will be located outside Burgess Auditorium. Please stop by if you have any questions or need assistance, we’re here to help!

      CBC is pleased to provide complimentary coffee and water on the platform in Burgess Auditorium, as well as in the foyer area of the Cooper Complex.

      During the meeting, CBC Dining Services will offer freshly prepared and affordable meals in the Mabee Student Services Complex. Menus will be posted at the information table and online through the Central Baptist College Dining Services Facebook page. Mealtimes & Prices:

      • Breakfast: 7:30 a.m.-9:30 a.m. ($6)

      • Lunch: 11 a.m.-1 p.m. ($10)

      • Dinner: 4:45 p.m.-6:30 p.m. ($9)

      To ensure a safe and pleasant visit, our fire lanes are marked with red curbs and enforced by the City of Conway. Parking along “No Parking” streets surrounding campus is restricted by city ordinance. Handicapped parking is available on the south and west sides of the Cooper Complex, and CBC employees and students will park off-campus or in the grassy lot south of Story Library to make parking easier for our guests.

      We count it a joy to host you on our campus and to share in this time of fellowship and renewal. As expressed in Philippians 1:3–5 (ESV): “I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy, because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now.” May the Lord bless this year’s Annual Session with unity, encouragement and a deepened commitment to His mission. It is all “For the sake of the Name.”

Doing Nothing Isn’t an Option

By Jeff Herring, Executive Editor • Baptist Trumpet

      In December 1938, while most people were planning Christmas vacations, a 29-year-old London stockbroker named Nicholas Winton canceled his ski trip. A friend in Prague had written, “Come help. The situation is desperate.” When he arrived, he found Jewish families trapped as Nazi power spread across Europe. The world was looking away, but Winton didn’t. The decision he made in those few weeks would change hundreds of lives and echo across generations.

      With no authority, no training and no organization behind him, he arranged what became his own version of the Kindertransport — rescuing 669 children from Czechoslovakia before the borders closed and Nazi occupation began. Then he went home, lived an ordinary life, and rarely mentioned what he’d done. Fifty years later, his story was rediscovered. Invited to a television program, Winton sat unaware that the audience around him was filled with the grown children he had rescued. As they stood to their feet in gratitude, he wept — overwhelmed, humble, almost embarrassed by the attention and grateful that the children he once rescued now stood before him. When asked why he did it, he simply said, “If something’s not impossible, there must be a way of doing it.”

      Around that same time, another man on the other side of the world felt a different kind of burden. W. J. Burgess, the pastor of Temple Baptist Church in Little Rock, began a small publication called the Temple Trumpet. His goal was to keep his congregation connected and informed about what God was doing among them. It started as a local church paper, but God had bigger plans.

      As word spread beyond the congregation, the Temple Trumpet began connecting believers across Arkansas. That same heartbeat of connection became even more important when the Baptist Missionary Association of America was formed in 1950. On Feb. 6, 1952, the final Temple Trumpet was printed, and just a week later, on Feb. 13, the first Baptist Trumpet appeared. Two years later, in November 1954, it officially became the publication of the BMA of Arkansas with the same mission — helping people stay connected to what God was doing through their churches and through this growing family of believers we now call the association.

      Eighty-six years later, that same mission still matters. The Trumpet is more than ink and paper. It’s a weekly connection point reminding us that we’re part of something bigger than our own church walls. It informs, inspires and involves believers in what God is doing through our churches, missionaries and ministries. But that connection doesn’t happen by accident. Every page we print and every story we tell depends on people who still believe that staying connected to the mission is worth the cost.

      In my October 1 article, “Which Pocket?” (page 1 or at baptisttrumpet.com/2025/09/30/which-pocket), I shared more about the Trumpet’s financial needs. This isn’t just about balancing a budget. It’s about keeping the heartbeat of our association strong. As we approach the end of the year, we need immediate help to stay current on expenses and continue doing what this ministry has done faithfully for generations — keeping our churches connected to the mission. If you haven’t already, please consider a special offering or an increase in your regular support this month. Your partnership truly helps us carry this shared work forward.

      And while we’re talking about involvement, don’t leave the work of our association to “someone else.” We are the association, and the work only happens when each of us shows up, takes ownership and plays our part. Make it a priority to be at the BMA of Arkansas meeting on November 6. Come ready to worship, pray and celebrate what God is doing through our churches as we invest in the mission together.

      Nicholas Winton didn’t wait for permission, and W.J. Burgess didn’t wait for a committee. Both men saw a need and acted. The challenge for us is the same — see the need, refuse apathy and do our part. Doing nothing has never changed the world. Doing something — especially when it costs something — always does.

      So, what can you do?

         • Pray — Ask God to bless and sustain the work of the Baptist Trumpet and the ministries of the BMA of Arkansas.

         • Give — If the Lord allows, send a special offering this month to help the Trumpet meet year-end needs and remain current on expenses. You can give online at BaptistTrumpet.com/Give.

         • Encourage — Remind your church and pastor why staying connected through the Trumpet matters.

         • Show Up — Be at the BMA of Arkansas meeting on November 6. Don’t leave the work of the association to someone else. Come ready to worship, pray, and participate.

         • Stay Engaged — Read, share and talk about what God is doing through our association. Connection takes commitment.

Celebration 2025 Registration Extended!

By Emily Brantley, Project Manager/Media Coordinator • Lifeword

      Good news — there’s still time to register! The Celebration Conference 2025 registration deadline has been extended to Monday, Oct. 27. Make plans to join us Nov. 18–20 in Branson, Mo., for a refreshing time of worship, laughter and fellowship with friends from across the BMA family.

      This year’s lineup features David Dickson as speaker, with Neil Dumas and David Attebery leading worship and Yalanda Merrell serving as host. Enjoy a concert by Michael Booth, comedy from Dr. Dennis Swanberg and inspiring musicfrom the Central Baptist College Choir.

      Your registration includes a ticket to The Presleys’ Country Jubilee, with an optional add-on to experience the incredible “David” production at Sight & Sound Theatre.

Don’t wait — space fills quickly!

      Register today at bmaamerica.org/celebration or call (501) 329-6891, ext. 3837 for more information.

      Questions? Contact me at emily@lifeword.org.

CBC Board Hears Updates, Approves Recommendations

      We enjoyed a productive weekend meeting with the Central Baptist College Board of Trustees October 17-18 on our campus in Conway. The 20-member Board only meets three times a year, so we always have a lot of ground to cover in a short amount of time. The three standing committees (finance, academic and advancement) met Friday evening, and the full Board convened Saturday morning.

      At this meeting, our vice presidents and I were pleased to update the Board on what has been an extremely busy yet exciting fall semester. We shared that fall enrollment saw a 4.2% increase in total enrollment, an 8.5% increase in traditional students and an impressive 22% increase in first-time freshmen. The growth pushed campus housing to capacity, with 205 students living on campus, an all-time record for CBC!

      We were also encouraged to report that the College’s finances are beginning to stabilize. The combination of enrollment growth and increased giving from churches and individual supporters has made a significant impact. The Board also reviewed and approved the College’s 2024-2025 fiscal-year financial position and preliminary audit report.

      The October meeting is also the traditional time for the Board to consider room and board rates for the upcoming year. Because of the rising costs of food and utilities, we requested, and the Board approved, a small increase in housing rates that will take effect in August 2026. Since housing contracts for the next academic year will go out in early spring, we needed to act now to provide clarity for students and families.

      In addition, we recommended and the Board approved a small tuition increase for the 2026-2027 academic year. This is the first time we have brought tuition rates for a future year to the October meeting, but doing so will allow families time to plan ahead and enable our financial aid staff to provide accurate estimates of cost earlier in the admissions process.

      Other items of business included the approval of 2026 ministers’ housing allowances for eligible employees and the election of new Board officers for the upcoming year: Jake McCandless, chair; Dustin Wisely, vice chair; Jennifer Weaver, secretary; and Kelly Williams, assistant secretary.

     During executive session, the Board approved my recommendation to appoint Jessica Faulkner as Assistant Vice President for Communications and Marketing. I was also humbled and grateful to be re-elected as president of Central Baptist College for another year.

      As the meeting concluded, we took time to recognize three outstanding outgoing Board members — Ali Chambers, Jim Fink and Kellie Harper — for their faithful service from 2021-2025. I am deeply thankful for their commitment to CBC and their contributions to our mission.

      As I reflect on the weekend, I am once again reminded that God’s hand is upon Central Baptist College. Each report, each decision and each answered prayer is a testimony to His provision. I’m grateful for a Board of Trustees that loves the Lord, believes in the mission of Christian higher education and is willing to serve so faithfully. Please continue to pray for CBC as we remain steadfast in our calling to transform lives through Christ-centered education.

The Unappreciated Pastor

      Let me start by saying that I am not an unappreciated pastor. I may have been in the past, but my church has loved on me in wonderful ways over the nine years that I have been at Calvary Baptist Church in Fayetteville. Individually and corporately, the congregation has done an outstanding job of making sure I feel appreciated as one of God’s servants. They have shared with us financially when we have been in need. They have offered words of encouragement and appreciation for our mere presence. It has been a great time serving with them, and I pray it doesn’t end any time soon. However, not all churches show appreciation and love to their pastor(s) the way that Calvary does. When Pastor Appreciation Month rolls around, it can be a reminder to many that they haven’t received any kind words or gifts. This can especially be the case for the “second” man. The youth pastor, the worship pastor and others may see the lead pastor appreciated and highlighted, but the secondary roles may be forgotten. While we don’t serve for the applause of men, it can be painful to wonder if your church even wants you around.

      So, what does an unappreciated pastor do? Do we take our toys and leave if we don’t feel loved? No. If you find yourself a servant who rarely receives encouragement from your people, it is important to lean into other things to keep going when it gets difficult. Here are some things to keep in mind:

         • Shore up your relationship with God. Knowing that God is for us and our ministry can help stave off a multitude of negative thoughts as we serve. The very God of the universe is there to supply what you need. He loves you. He cares for you. He is our biggest fan. Those are things that we know but can easily forget. Read the Word. Pray. Find encouraging books about our God relationship. There is no greater source of encouragement.

         • Add encouraging people to other areas of your life. We like to feel successful and cared for. Perhaps you need to join a fitness group of some sort. I have found that most places’ running and biking communities are full of encouragers who want to see you succeed. I have found some extra encouragement in a Rush Running Speed Group, Taekwondo classes and even from a group of buddies that I ride bikes with two to three times a week. It doesn’t have to be something physical either. Find a way you can give to the community. For four years, I was the voice of the Lincoln High School Football Team. Circumstances changed, and I no longer serve in that role, but it was always good to hear from attendees that they appreciated what I was doing for them.

         • Find a Paul. All of us need a Paul and a Timothy. We need to be pouring into someone (Timothy) and being poured into by someone (Paul). This will more than likely be someone outside of your current congregation. Finding your “Paul” may take a while, but it is worth the effort.

         • Be an encourager. Lead by example. Show your people what it is to show gratitude and love. Be what you want them to be. If you work with students, this is incredibly important. They will mimic much of what you do. Hopefully, this is something you can show them and they can carry with them into adulthood.

         • Remember the ultimate goal of your ministry. It isn’t about personal gain or recognition. We serve because we are called. God has given us a great task. It takes ministerial grit to move forward even when we are down. Our goal is to know Jesus and make Him known. It isn’t about us. It is all about Him.

      These aren’t the only things you can do to help yourself if you find that you are the “Unappreciated Pastor,” but they are a place to start. Talk with your spouse or other trusted confidants if you are struggling with these feelings. If you don’t talk it out, a lack of appreciation can turn into feelings of resentment. Let us know what you think of Pastor Appreciation Month or other attempts by churches to make you feel loved. You can join the conversation at Facebook.com/groups/StudentMinistryMattersCommunity.